Friday, 8 December 2017
Thursday, 7 December 2017
How Your Words Impact Your Success
Sometimes the subtle
difference in our attitude, which can make a major difference in our
future, can be as simple as the language we use. It’s the difference in
even how you talk to yourself or others. It’s consciously making a
decision to quit saying what you don’t want and to start saying what you
do want. It’s faith—believing in the best, hoping for the best and
moving toward the best.
Instead of saying, “What if somebody doesn’t respond?” start saying, “What if they do respond?” Instead of saying, “What if someone says no?” say, “What if they say yes?” Instead of saying, “What if they start and quit?” say, “What if they start and stay?” Instead of saying, “What if it doesn’t work out?” say, “What if it does work out?”
Our language can also affect how others perform and behave around us. A teenager says to a parent, “I need $10.” The parents say, “No comprende. That’s not how you get $10. That kind of language doesn’t work here. But ‘How can I earn $10?’ might.”
There is plenty of money here. There is money for everybody—but you have to learn the magic words to get it. To get everything you could possibly want, you just have to learn the philosophy. How could you earn $10?
It is easy to stumble through almost a lifetime and not learn some of these simplicities. Then you have to put up with all the lack and all the challenges that don’t work out simply from not reading the book, not listening to the lesson, not studying your language—not being willing to search so you can then find.
But here is the great news. You can start this process anytime. For me it was at age 25. At 25 I was broke. Six years later, I was a millionaire.
You might ask, “What kind of revolution, what kind of change, what kind of thinking, what kind of magic had to happen? Was it you?”
No.
Any person, any six years you go on an intensive, accelerated personal development curve, learning curve, application curve, you can learn the disciplines. Now, it might not take the same amount of time, but the same changes and the same rewards are available for those who pay that “six-year” price. And you might find that whether it’s in the beginning to help get you started or in the middle to keep you on track, your language can have a great impact on your attitude, actions and results.
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Your December Action Plan: 10 Ways to Live a Simple, Happy Life
This month, make simplicity your No. 1 focus. Blow off some steam, take a risk for your own happiness and start preparing your next move.
1. Listen.
If you feel uninspired by your current career or
life path, maybe it’s time to switch up your schedule. This week, take a
new class, hit a networking event—try new things until something
sparks.
2. Find your strengths.
Strengths are different than skills. Take an online
strengths finder test to see where you are, where you need to improve
and what possibilities are available to you.
3. Risk it.
Seeking happiness takes courage. Be willing to risk
it all for that one thing that keeps you up at night. Failing is better
than never trying.
4. Define happiness.
Developed by studying the happiest countries in the
world, happiness is found at the intersection of pleasure, pride and
purpose. Visit SUCCESS.com/blue-zones-quiz to measure your happiness.
5. Prep then step.
Before starting your next project, draw up a
concrete plan for the vision and direction. Prepare before you launch,
but don’t prepare so much that you’re afraid to take the first step
6. Get real.
Finding time to be completely alone with your
thoughts isn’t easy. Carve out just three minutes a day to make space
for whatever thoughts arise.
7. Name your fears.
Change is scary, no matter how much we crave it.
When you’re on the brink of a new endeavor, identify the specific
emotions you’re feeling. It will help you understand and control them.
8. Don’t give in.
’Tis the season to stress out. Not you, not this
year, though. When things don’t go as you planned them, adjust your
perspective to one of gratitude for the time with loved ones.
9. Let loose.
Anxiety can build up and cripple you. Blow off some
steam by checking out an anger room in your area or signing up for an
obstacle course race.
10. Show empathy.
If a member of your team struggles with
prioritizing tasks, pair them with someone who can see the big picture. A
successful team requires complementary parts.
Wednesday, 6 December 2017
The Secret to Self-Motivation | One of the Best Speeches Ever
Almost 3 million views! Have you listened to this...
Tuesday, 5 December 2017
Minimising Distractions and Time Wasters
There
are many things in life that can, potentially, waste a lot of time.
By minimising distractions and removing time-wasters from our day we can
accomplish more and potentially become more successful.
Although the following list is
geared towards the workplace many of the ideas can be applied to other
busy times in life - when you need to get on and avoid as many
distractions as possible.
By utilising just some of these simple ideas you can increase your productivity and make more effective use of your time.
Phone
- When you’re busy turn your phones onto silent.
- Use voice-mail wisely and set aside times to return missed calls.
- Schedule times in the day when you will receive calls – let others know your schedule.
- Have a personal mobile phone do not give the number to your boss or colleagues. Friends and family can then still reach you in an emergency.
- When making or receiving a call: be polite, listen and clarify but try to avoid excessive small talk keeping calls as brief as possible.
- Take calls standing up, research shows people who stand while on the phone keep their conversations brief.
- If you agree to take on tasks as part of the phone conversation act on them immediately – even if this means adding them to your ‘to-do’ list.
- Store numbers that you dial frequently in your phone or keep a list readily available near the phone.
- Only check your emails a couple of times a day. Close your email client when it is not being used. New emails flashing up on your computer screen can be a huge distraction and time waster.
- Set up folders and rules in your email client helping to automatically filter and file email messages.
- Schedule a block of time each day for sending and responding to emails. Don’t let emails build up to unmanageable levels.
- Delete all spam emails immediately.
- Delete all irrelevant emails immediately. This includes ‘general’ emails that don’t specifically involve you. People in organisations often use the ‘Reply to All’ function in their email client. Although such emails may be relevant to certain people or departments if you are not one of them then delete.
- Forward emails to somebody who can provide a better response if appropriate.
- Try to handle each relevant email only once, read and respond immediately within your scheduled time. Once done file the email away.
- Be wary of emails marked urgent or high priority… they may well not be.
- Open your mail near a waste-paper basket and bin what you can immediately.
- Deal with mail immediately if possible, read, process and reply or action. Aim to handle each piece of mail only once.
Computers
- Turn off any instant messaging applications.
- Close programs and documents when you have finished using them – file your documents in a logical way. This not only removes distractions but also means your computer has more resources for doing the next job.
- Close web-pages after you have finished reading them. This is especially important for news or social networking sites where information is updated constantly.
- If you are tempted to distract yourself with a computer game then either ration the amount of time you play or uninstall it from your computer.
- Make sure your computer is protected from viruses and malware. Backup your work; use a USB pen drive to carry important documents and files but don’t forget to password protect it.
- Work within your means whenever possible. Trying to learn new IT Skills when you are pressed for time can be a disaster, ask somebody for help or find a simpler way of achieving your goal. Schedule time in the future to learn specific IT Skills.
Arranged Meetings
- Only attend meetings that are relevant to you. Is the meeting necessary and does it have a specific purpose?
- Aim to arrive on time for meetings, neither early nor late.
- Know the purpose of the meeting and get a copy of the agenda in advance. Arrange to leave the meeting early if it is only partially relevant.
- Agree in advance how long meetings will run for. Start and end the meeting on time.
- Use a timed agenda, especially for longer meetings or where the chairperson is less effective.
Visitors – Impromptu Meetings
- Let people know when you are available to meet with visitors.
- Schedule blocks of time when you can meet with visitors and refer to these as appointments – try to limit each appointment to 10 or 15 minutes. The word appointment is more formal and people are less likely to think they are ‘popping in for a chat’ and more likely to come for a specific reason.
- Learn to say no. If visitors arrive at an inconvenient time then politely explain that you cannot see them and schedule the visit for a mutually convenient time.
- Don’t forget to schedule time to spend with friends!
Family Commitments
- Use a calendar for which each member of the family is responsible for recording their commitments and activities. Include clubs and societies, social events, days off, doctor and dentist appointments, planned events such as holidays and car services, hairdresser appointments, visits from friends and extended family – as much information as possible so that each day can be managed effectively.
- Use a tray or box for keeping important paperwork together near the calendar. Include appointment reminders, phone messages and other relevant documents. Throw away documents as soon as they expire.
Stress
- When we’re busy we are more likely to have a shorter temper than when we are more relaxed. Little things are more likely to irritate us and we’re more likely to feel stressed or angry. Stress and anger will both potentially waste more time – and you run the risk of damaging your health and the feelings of others. Always try to stay as calm as possible, let others know that you are busy and that you need time to complete your tasks. People are usually understanding and may even offer to help!
I Will Fear No Evil - Best of Les Brown
Great material in this video. I think it's worth listening to, do you?
Monday, 4 December 2017
How Incredibly Successful People THINK
Have you been setting it up to learn what you need to be successful
Sunday, 3 December 2017
15 Personal Development Quotes to Help You Invest in Yourself
The importance of personal development can’t be overstated. It’s the secret to separating yourself from the
pack, the bridge that carries you toward the goals you have yet to
reach.
We spend a ton of time investing in things that numb us to the reality of how short life is―things like scrolling the internet for hours on end or watching TV to the point of restlessness. Entertainment is fun, but how much time do we save for ourselves? How often do we set aside dedicated time for personal development, where we are learning and growing in a way that defines our existence?
To be well rounded, find some time to invest in yourself. These 15 motivating quotes are a great way to start thinking about who you want to become.
We spend a ton of time investing in things that numb us to the reality of how short life is―things like scrolling the internet for hours on end or watching TV to the point of restlessness. Entertainment is fun, but how much time do we save for ourselves? How often do we set aside dedicated time for personal development, where we are learning and growing in a way that defines our existence?
To be well rounded, find some time to invest in yourself. These 15 motivating quotes are a great way to start thinking about who you want to become.
1. "Income seldom exceeds personal development" ―Jim Rohn
2. “Every moment of one’s existence, one is growing into more or retreating into less.” ―Norman Mailer
3. “You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.” ―Henry David Thoreau
4. “Life is growth. If we stop growing, technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead.” ―Morihei Ueshiba
5. “Personal development is a major time-saver. The better you become, the less time it takes you to achieve your goals.” ―Brian Tracy
6. “The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” ―Ralph Waldo Emerson
7. “Man’s life is independent. He is born not for the development of the society alone, but for the development of his self.” ―B. R. Ambedkar
8. “Change equals self-improvement. Push yourself to places you haven’t been before.” ―Pat Summitt
9. “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ―Ernest Hemingway
10. “Growth is the great separator between those who succeed and those who do not. When I see a person beginning to separate themselves from the pack, it’s almost always due to personal growth.” ―John C. Maxwell
11. “Personal development is the belief that you are worth the effort, time and energy needed to develop yourself.” ―Denis Waitley
12. “Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no greater investment.” ―Stephen Covey
13. “One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again” ―Abraham Maslow
14. “Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you.” ―Robin Sharma
15. “In this world you’re either growing or you’re dying, so get in motion and grow." ―Lou Holtz
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