A really good friend of mine is always saying "when you love what you
do, you never have to work a day in your life". It’s a mantra and quote
that has stuck with me for many years now and words of wisdom I live by
and have imparted to my kids and clients alike. The way I see it is you
have at least two choices. You find your bliss or passion in a career or
hobby and you go for it or you find a way to be passionate about your
current career.
Here are some strategies to help you find your passion:
1. Satisfaction Check – Look at each area of your life and determine
your level of satisfaction with each area. You should consider your
career, finances, health and wellness, relationship with your
significant other, family and friends, personal growth and development,
physical surroundings, fun and recreation and anything else that is
important to you. I like to rate each area on a scale of 1 to 10 with 10
being the highest level of satisfaction (your bliss) and 1 being a low
or no level of satisfaction. Then I suggest taking a good hard look at
each area to analyze the gap. Determine what would have to happen or
change for the gap to be reduced or eliminated. For example: If you
rated your career a 7 out of 10. What would make your satisfaction level
with your career a 10? Perhaps more clients, less travel time to work, a
better relationship with your boss, etc. Once you’ve identified all the
items that could make a difference in your level of satisfaction you
need to commit to action. Taking even one action will move you one step
closer to a higher level of satisfaction in that area of your life.
2. Values Check - Know what’s important to you. Being really clear
about your values and what’s most important to you helps you make better
decisions more often. Make a list of what’s most important to you in
your life right now. Then rank everything on the list from highest
priority to lowest priority. Take a really close look at your top 5
values. These are your most important values. How closely aligned are
these top 5 values to how you spend your time day to day? What have you
been neglecting that’s really important to you? Many successful people
put as much time and thought into what they do in their time away from
the office as they do in the office. Can you make connections between
what you do for a living and what’s important to you? For example:
perhaps you have an expensive hobby you are passionate about i.e. race
car driving or flying planes. You are in a high paying career that you
perhaps don’t love but it provides you with the time and money to race
cars or fly planes. Find ways to love your work or at least be grateful
for your career as it is providing you with the means to follow your
passion of racing cars or flying planes-there is a connection to your
values, there is a sense of purpose.
3. Competencies Check –
Before leaving my corporate career of 26 years to start my own business,
I did some planning and strategizing to determine the type of business I
wanted to be in. In the business world it is common to conduct a SWOT
analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats). Applying this
same management tool can be very effective when applied personally.
Start with an assessment of your personal strengths and weaknesses. What
are you really good at? What aren’t you so good at? Engage others to
provide you with feedback in these areas as well. You may be surprised
by hidden talents you have taken for granted or haven’t been using.
Consider opportunities available to you today to utilize and optimize
your strengths. For example: There are careers and businesses in
existence today that weren’t around 26 years ago when I first started my
professional career. The world is constantly changing and evolving and
so are the opportunities. Look for the opportunities or create some new
ones. As for threats, it’s important to recognize that they do exist and
to plan to minimize or mitigate any risks.
4. Mindset Check –
Lastly, it’s important to recognize that no one or one thing can make
you happy. Only you can make yourself happy!
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